Kathleen

About Kathleen

Kathleen is the adventurous writer behind Life by Kathleen. After welcoming her first child, she realised the importance of nurturing and enhancing her friendships. Dedicated to supporting women in improving, maintaining, or problem-solving in their friendships, she shares insights on achieving personal goals while navigating motherhood and household responsibilities.

Red flags and toxic friendship: what to look out for

2025-09-10T19:00:25+10:00

Some friendships last and some don’t. And sometimes a friend literally becomes a family member. But there is a saying that goes something like there are three friends in life. Friends for a reason, friends for a season and friends for a lifetime. And I think that holds true. Just like relationship red flags, friendship red flags can be subjective. So here are some clues that will help you determine where your unhealthy friendships might be heading. The way you feel after spending time with them I have one friend who I have been friends with for 10+ years. But I [...]

Red flags and toxic friendship: what to look out for2025-09-10T19:00:25+10:00

How to Plan the Perfect Self-Care Weekend as a Busy Mom

2024-08-27T17:29:08+10:00

Moms are often seen as the pillars of strength in families, but we often forget to take care of ourselves. Even though also taking care of yourself is an important part of being a parent, many of us struggle to find the time or resources to take care of our own needs. Common obstacles that prevent moms from taking care of themselves include: lack of time financial constraints lack of support from family members and friends feeling guilty for putting yourself first lack of energy to do more And with limited resources available, many moms are left feeling overwhelmed by [...]

How to Plan the Perfect Self-Care Weekend as a Busy Mom2024-08-27T17:29:08+10:00

How one declutter challenge helped me get rid of 465 things

2024-05-06T16:10:29+10:00

I don’t know about you, but I have tried so many decluttering challenges. Every man and their dog seems to have one. I’m no expert, but I have seen a few episodes of that Marie Kondo show on Netflix and I listen to a podcast that is all about decluttering. But when I found this challenge I knew it was something I could achieve. This one decluttering challenge claimed it would help me get rid of at least 465 things in 30 days. I learned about this challenge through Shelley from Let’s Live and Learn’s Instagram account. Four Hundred and sixty-five is no small [...]

How one declutter challenge helped me get rid of 465 things2024-05-06T16:10:29+10:00

Score Big Savings: How to Get the Most Out of Lush Sales

2024-09-02T13:59:28+10:00

Every year in Australia, Lush holds Boxing Day Sales starting on the British holiday of Boxing Day. The last few years have seen 50% off Christmas and other leftover holiday stock. With 2017 offering in-store-only discounts, I expect future years to be the same. I got really lucky to visit a store in 2017. I was interstate on holiday and certainly not expecting to come across a Lush handmade cosmetics store. What is Lush Cosmetics? For those of you that lived under the same rock I did until about 2016,  Lush is a global cosmetics retailer. Lush is known for [...]

Score Big Savings: How to Get the Most Out of Lush Sales2024-09-02T13:59:28+10:00

The Bloody Long Walk

2023-07-11T13:07:27+10:00

Towards the end of August of 2014, one of my colleagues suggested we do The Bloody Long Walk. A few others agreed and I also got roped into it. What is the Bloody Long Walk? The Bloody Long Walk is a 35 km walk created by the Mito Foundation. Its goal is to raise vital funds to cure Mitochondrial Disease, a debilitating and sometimes fatal genetic disorder that robs the body’s cells of energy, causing major organs to dysfunction or fail and can be a fatal disease. At least one Australian child is born with this debilitating genetic disorder each week. [...]

The Bloody Long Walk2023-07-11T13:07:27+10:00

The Secrets to Maintaining Adult Friendships

2024-05-06T16:17:31+10:00

Maintaining adult friendships can be difficult. It’s not like high school, where you see each other every day. You actually have to put in some effort to keep them alive. I guess you could say adult friendships are like plants. You need to care for them. A little bit of this and a little bit of that to keep things just right. So here are my top secrets to maintaining adult friendships. The benefits of friendship Friendships play a crucial role in our overall well-being and happiness. And that doesn’t change in adulthood. They provide us with a social support [...]

The Secrets to Maintaining Adult Friendships2024-05-06T16:17:31+10:00

Exploring the Australian Pumpkin Spice Latte Experience

2023-09-18T16:43:11+10:00

Ordering a pumpkin spice latte might have you stereotyped as basic in America. But the Australian fixation makes you cultured and gives the impression of a well-travelled individual. But if you’ve never tried a pumpkin spice latte in Australia, do not fret. I have a number of solutions to make sure your first experience will not be your last. A few years ago, I was lucky enough to be in North America during November. While there I sampled many, many Pumpkin Spice Lattes. And it got me thinking about how I could recreate the pumpkin spice flavour back home.  What [...]

Exploring the Australian Pumpkin Spice Latte Experience2023-09-18T16:43:11+10:00

A to Z of Self Care Ideas to Nurture your Wellbeing

2024-08-02T18:18:18+10:00

Self-care. It’s one of those things you love or don’t really care for. I’ll be honest, I’m not a big fan of the phrase. But I know I need to keep a few self-care activities up my sleeve. The definition of self-care Self-care is the practice of taking deliberate actions to develop and nurture your physical well-being, emotional health and mental welfare. But it goes beyond simple indulgences like a bath or rich chocolate ice cream. It encompasses activities and habits that promote long-term balance. It recognises the importance of maintaining a good relationship with yourself. And by taking care [...]

A to Z of Self Care Ideas to Nurture your Wellbeing2024-08-02T18:18:18+10:00

Insightful Quotes from James Clear’s Atomic Habits

2024-11-08T14:30:44+11:00

As a self-confessed self-improvement junkie, I love a good self-help book. And Atomic Habits by James Clear is no exception. It's one of the most popular books on habits. And can be found near the top of almost any book recommendation list about habits, motivation or self-improvement. A little about James Clear James Clear, the renowned author and speaker, has transformed the way we approach personal development and behaviour change through his innovative self-help book, Atomic Habits. Throughout its pages, Clear offers invaluable insights and strategies for building positive habits that can transform our lives. A little about Atomic Habits [...]

Insightful Quotes from James Clear’s Atomic Habits2024-11-08T14:30:44+11:00

9 Uncommon Ways To Practice Self Care

2024-08-02T18:15:35+10:00

Sitting in a hot bubble bath with a face mask or doing yoga is not everyone’s cup of tea when it comes to self-care. While I do love a long hot bubble bath, yoga is just too slow for me. The term self-care wasn’t something I was familiar with before trying to become a parent. Before that, it was just part of what I did anyway. But going through IVF, an importance was placed on looking after my mental health, not just my physical health.Now self-care means taking the time to do things that I enjoy and being a little [...]

9 Uncommon Ways To Practice Self Care2024-08-02T18:15:35+10:00

How to Survive a Season of Chaos

2025-02-03T16:30:48+11:00

Working in the accounting industry for 9 years, I learned really quickly when the busiest time of the year is. No one dared apply for leave during the month of July. I had to learn how to survive a season of chaos, and fast. Here are a few things I do to keep myself sane outside of work hours during those busy times. What is a season of chaos? A season of chaos is a period of life where things feel unpredictable, disordered and even turbulent. It's important to embrace flexibility and adaptability during this time. And recognise that your circumstances [...]

How to Survive a Season of Chaos2025-02-03T16:30:48+11:00

How A Girls Night Changed My Life

2024-03-14T13:48:52+11:00

I hosted my first girls' night in January 2018, and that first girls' night changed my life. It was such a great night that I hosted another one in February. I guess you could say the rest is history. Relationships were a major focus for me in 2018, one of the main ones was with my friends. I wanted to catch up with them more often and know more about their day-to-day lives. We all get busy with work, family, and other commitments. We often don’t make time to catch up with those that have been there for us. Life just [...]

How A Girls Night Changed My Life2024-03-14T13:48:52+11:00

The Power of an Anti-Morning Routine: Embracing Your Own Unique Flow

2023-12-07T09:54:09+11:00

There can be a lot of pressure to try to fit in as much as you can in the morning. Gurus flaunt the ideals of waking up before your kids. Journalling, exercising and doing some form of self-care before doing anything else. Yet that doesn’t seem realistic. For me, my house is not designed in a way that shuts rooms off from one another. If you played music in any room of the house, you could hear it from each and every other room. Except maybe the garage. So it’s not practical for me to be doing much before anyone [...]

The Power of an Anti-Morning Routine: Embracing Your Own Unique Flow2023-12-07T09:54:09+11:00

How I Cut My Laundry Costs In Half

2024-03-14T13:50:48+11:00

A while ago I caught a snippet from a morning show on Facebook where it was mentioned that it is not necessary to use the recommended amount when doing laundry. So I followed the advice and experimented with these small changes on my own. And the result was that I cut my laundry costs in half.But I have a secret confession: Doing laundry is my favourite household chore. I put the machine on and then get to do something else for almost an hour before I have to worry about it again. It takes me 10-15 minutes to hang it [...]

How I Cut My Laundry Costs In Half2024-03-14T13:50:48+11:00
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